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Episode 109: Marquel

Season 7, Episode 10

Marquel
Age: 30
Location: South Beach, Florida
Addiction: Alcohol, bulimia, exercise
What’s memorable: This episode makes the “unforgettable episodes” category on account of 1) the intervention that didn’t happen as a result of her roommate figuring out it was the Intervention cameras, and telling her about it and 2) Marquel’s serious denial about her various addictions.

Official Synopsis: Working as a fitness instructor at the most elite gyms and partying on the club circuit at night, Marquel seems to have the perfect life. But her family sees her exercise regime as obsessive-compulsive, and they watch her binge-drinking episodes end up in hospitalizations. They believe she is an exercise addict, bulimic, and alcoholic, and they have turned to interventionist Candy for help.

Original Air Date: February 2010

Interventionist: Candy

Categories: Alcohol, Bulimia, Candy, Death of Loved One, Eating Disorder, Exercise, Most In-Denial Addicts, Most Unforgettable Episodes, Season 7

Discussion

12 Responses to “Episode 109: Marquel”

  1. I fell in love with her storry. Is the one I seek the most. she might have a compulsion, but she was verry atractive, very active and determined. better than most lazy people who do nothing about themselves. Verry dedicated. I do not condone her exessive drinking, but I realy admire her working out a lot. Better than most people who do nothing at all but eat donuts, drink soda and watch a lot of tv and money making commercials

    Posted by James | December 8, 2012, 9:45 pm
  2. The fact that she is/was “active” is a large part of how she (and others!) define herself as “not an addict/alcoholic.” It’s called “looking good.” (I’ve been there!) This is often called “stinking thinking” and is referred to as denial: I’m not an addict because i go to the gym every day (or i have a management job and my company thinks i’m a great employee). The “because” can be anything the addict/alcoholic believes of themselves and justifies that s/he is NOT addicted.

    Believe me, when we look past all that, it’s easy to see the addictions in action. Marquel’s situation is very sad to me and i also feel really sad for her family. To the family i would say this: i think you are very courageous to keep your “bottom line” so you are not enabling her and at the same time you are learning to be healthy yourselves.

    ped (sober 34 yrs)

    Posted by pat d | November 23, 2014, 12:43 pm
  3. I found her on Facebook, apparently she is either still married or remarried and has given birth to a third child. She still works as a fitness instructor.

    Posted by Holly | January 24, 2015, 1:11 am
  4. I’m pretty impressed with how much this woman can work out with all of that alcoholic consumption.

    Posted by kristy | January 12, 2016, 5:47 am
  5. Well I give this much to Marquel , the woman had a hustle in certain parts of her life . She looks so happy now and so in love with her children and husband . She had a baby and looked like Wonder Woman a month later ( as a mom of two near 20 year old children I am still looking for my pre – baby and have been losing that last 10 pounds for 20 years 😉 ). Not to be materialistic or look oriented but she truly does look fantastic . I hope she applies her strict health , workout and beauty routine to kick drinking out of her life and keep it away . She truly is one strong woman . I know she vehemently rejected rehab and sobriety but if she truly is sober now then I honestly think with training in psychology, drug and alcohol counseling and dietician studies she would be a very good sober coach or employee in a part of the field that utilizes eating healthy , exercising and staying fit as part of staying sober and feeling good about it.
    I have talked to so many people that had extended care that were happy with their care but said exercise and learning skills for healthy eating and living was lacking . It seems to me that this should be a integral part in achieving sobriety . If looking good is feeling good then truly finding a healthy diet and exercise could help in finding a positive way and place to focus on any void left by the time that was spent before seeking and using your substance of choice. Many people that are lucky enough to achieve sobriety suffer devastating depression and use again to fight depression . Imagine an alternative to antidepressants, benzodiazepines ,antipsychotics and a life sentence to Methadone to fight to keep sober and fight depression and that alternative being exercise and a focus on good physical health .Just a thought but Marquel could help so many people fighting addiction because I have a feeling her desire to be healthy helped her overcome so much .
    Anyways I am proud of her and hope she is truly doing well . Her family looks so happy . No facade but truly happy and healthy . I was initially appalled by her reaction but she reacted like many people do just a bit more drastic . And this is neither here nor there but the woman has a 6-8 pack to die for and should be proud of her work especially now that is very obvious that she made mistakes but adores her gorgeous family ( gorgeous in the emotional and loving sense ) . I definitely wish her continued success and I salute her for her having a job she obviously loves and excels at . She is a physical trainer so she helps many people get and stay healthy and openly thanks the people that have helped her and educate her on the ever growing methods of achieving and teaching physical fitness . She seemed like a hard case but she had a big heart all along .

    Posted by marcy lily | February 6, 2016, 10:06 pm
    • I mean, she was bulimic. Nothing about what she was doing was healthy. To obsessively work out while poisoning yourself with that much alcohol and getting basically no nutrician. She painted a picture of this healthy, fit girl but she was so not healthy!

      Posted by C | April 28, 2017, 6:30 am
  6. She is sober, happily remarried, and raising her children and yes their is anew little girl. She’s still a fitness instructor, but works out in a healthy way now. She is a wonderful woman of God and has an incredible relationship with her family. She is kind, funny, and sweet.

    Posted by Victoria Garcia | June 3, 2017, 5:15 pm
  7. Marquel lives in my city and works at one of the gyms. Shes my rolemodel and looks amazing. No longer drinking

    Posted by Natasha | August 6, 2017, 5:30 pm
  8. I’m glad she is healthy now, if this is indeed the case.

    That being said…to those who think exercise addiction is some great lifestyle to aspire to, here’s a suggestion: why don’t you try it for a week? I will be nice and even make you your own training guide. I will go easy, since you probably do an.bsolutely nothing right now. Just walk for, oh, 4 or 5 hours and the go ride the bike for about an hour or two. Nothing strenuous. Maybe some stretching thrown in. Eat a very light dinner and then go to bed. What’s that? You’re starving? Too bad! Now you get to lay there for hours, and this is where the fun begins: your body is exhausted, but it won’t allow you to sleep, because you’re still hungry. The best part of all? That tomorrow will be an ice, relaxing day at the spa? No. You’ve entered a world where there are no days off. Tomorrow will be the same thing. And then you will have to keep increasing the intensity, because your body will stop being challenged by the same exercises. You may join a gym. I’d suggest joining two, because the people at the first gym start to get concerned because you’re there so long, and you don’t want them asking questions, so that’s where the second gym comes in. 24 hour gyms are great for this. But what about my personal life? What about it? Do you think this is some hobby? Do you think you get to enjoy things like dinners out or drinks with friends at this level of training? Kiss those days goodbye. You can’t even afford to take off for holidays anymore. Get used to ignoring calls. Get used to angry friends. There is no room in your life anymore for anything else. The basic nods you exchange with other exercises at the gym will serve as your only social exchanges. You will find that often, even work gets in the way. Normal life becomes a memory. But this is the life you aspire to. This is something people desire to become. This is the good life.

    Posted by Tobie | September 5, 2017, 5:58 am
  9. I hope she is sober and happy if indeed that is the case in 2017 I hope she realizes that her girlfriend was not her friend that her family had her best interest and most love At Heart I hope 2017 brings her the peace and the happiness that she needs in her life

    Posted by John | September 5, 2017, 7:03 am

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